It was almost two years ago that I decided after my last break up to not end up in another re-bound relationship. Since high school I was never single there was always someone there to temporarily satisfy my loneliness but I decided to go a different route for once I decided to stay single and date around until I was able to finally meet a man that wanted what I wanted which was a serious relationship. The dating journey began and it wasn’t very successful in fact I was personally not even emotionally ready to even date because as soon as some guy showed any interest in me I automatically kind of went back into my normal routine my goal to make them my boyfriend and hope that they would entertain me enough so they would stick around after three dating disasters I revaluated myself and tried to get to know me and spend some quality time with myself sure my social life wasn’t very active but I figured I’d make it active even if it’s on my own.
I mostly just read a lot I read about 18 books, then I went to a convention alone that was interesting but I met a lot of great people and they all liked the same stuff I did. I went to Georgia which I had never been to before and spent some quality time with a certain airman that I had known for almost four years, a few months later I traveled to Florida, and then last but not least my birthday treat to myself a weekend back home to the city that I love dearly New York City all these journey’s I wandered all by lonesome and they were pretty fun. Pretty soon I got back into the dating game and I felt pretty fulfilled met a few people and then came my boyfriend and so far so good.
I know that no one wants to be alone; it wasn’t all that easy there were a lot of sad moments too. But I surrounded myself with positive things like great friends, family and new hobbies. Now I have people asking me for advice and asking me “what’s my secret” I just was patient and now I’m taken. So be patient because your chance at something great can be just around the corner.
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